Just asking because I (20, M) was dumped by ex (F, 19) over text in March after being together for eight months. Now I'm up at like half past midnight unable to process my feelings lol.
I really liked her and she (I'm pretty sure) felt the same with me but ultimately we had different goals in life (plus a whole host of other issues).
My (divorced since I was 4, but recently remarried) just texted me back when I told him, so no phone call from him. When I met him in person? My dad laughed when I told him, said it wasn't that serious because he didn't meet her, nor was I experienced enough to make the hour drive so it would have ended at some point and then said it was fine because there were plenty more fish in the sea and I feel like he could have handled that a whole lot better.
He's just saying now that it's stupid to put anyone on a pedestal, not to define my worth by relationships, and that no woman is worth crying over.
My mum's advice was that she never liked the girl, she was glad we had broken up, it was never going to last, I'm to stop feeling sorry for myself and focus on my uni. Now I'm off uni I'm to date as many girls as I can. She doesn't think it's wrong to date multiple women at the same time because of my age, and simultaneously thinks I'm going out too much. I also feel she could have handled that better.
Do you consider this advice to be bad? What other bad break up advice have you heard?