r/GirlDinnerDiaries 9h ago

Dear Diary ✍️🏻 Update: Video got out of bsf barking on her knees for a guy

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u/Expert-Welder-2407 Well-Read & Well-Fed 9h ago

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

Yeah u need context 😭

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u/JonahHillsWetFart Savory Complex✔️ 9h ago

i was doing heinous things at 17 but at least it wasn't whatever this is

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u/SithCthulhu Well-Read & Well-Fed 8h ago

For real, why isn't girlie just shoplifting eyeliner from cvs as is tradition?

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u/mikumikufantasy Carb-Based Life Form 9h ago

Opening girldinnerdiares to read a situation i could not even fathom in a dream

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u/makestuff24-7 🧂Salty By Nature 8h ago

Not even in a medically induced coma dream

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

lmao 😭

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u/morganyve Tea Time Hostess ☕️ 9h ago

lol yall gonna be laughing about this one still even 10 years later, reminds me of me and my bff

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

Hopefully !

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u/ughCaitlyn Feral Til Fed 9h ago

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u/[deleted] 9h ago

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u/False_Repeat7287 Body By Cheese 🧀 8h ago

Girl I doubt any amount of context can help me fathom the act of recording herself barking on her knees at a stranger

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u/Diamondee_S164 Snack Goblin 9h ago

If you want to see the previous post just search up the title not including Update on.

Or you could put the link in your post instead, if you want people to read this... thing.

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago edited 7h ago

I will add tho !

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u/berrycustard i like eggs 9h ago

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u/Mobile_Collection_76 APPROVED✨ 9h ago

Well, that sucks. You're a good friend!!

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

ty !

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u/dickdicksucksuck APPROVED✨ 9h ago

we cant see your last post bestie this has no context for us

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

Sorry I just linked it !

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u/Expandsonstories eat hot chip✔️ be bisexual✔️ 8h ago

You couldn't pay me to be a fuckin teenager again holy hell.

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 7h ago

Deleting this post because of all the hate and people even calling me "uneducated" so yeah disengaging. Ty to everyone who was nice and chill tho !

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u/Street_Sun4003 Certified Snacker 9h ago

Have we considered that she might have a kink and shaming her and saying she’s a pig for it isn’t a good idea? If I were you I’d offer her a safe space to be a freak if she wants to and just tell her to be proud of her freak IF that’s what’s happening. It might have really been a joke but … some jokes have a bit of truth. Maybe she’s your kinky friend! That’s ok ! It’s fun! Let her know you’re a safe space for her to explore that if that’s what she wants. She may be feeling shame on top of embarrassment

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u/False_Repeat7287 Body By Cheese 🧀 8h ago

Umm no girl… can we consider how the boy (stranger btw) would feel about this. A joke is one thing but if it’s a kink then that lowkey makes it worse.

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u/Street_Sun4003 Certified Snacker 8h ago

We don’t do a great job at teaching younger people about comprehensive consent. Was it wrong that she did that to a stranger? yes. Does she still deserve a place to explore herself after making a mistake? also yes. Things like that happen because society as a whole is so sex negative. She sent a video of herself barking. Not a nude not anything objectively explicit. She’s a child she should be allowed to learn from this. The other option is shaming her to oblivion leaving her to navigate this alone.

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u/False_Repeat7287 Body By Cheese 🧀 8h ago

I agree that she should learn from it, however, dismissing the action and reactions as “kink shaming” helps no one.

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u/Street_Sun4003 Certified Snacker 6h ago

I didn’t do that babe

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

Idk what u mean by kink sorry 😭

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u/Street_Sun4003 Certified Snacker 9h ago

Oh! How old are yall?

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

I wrote it in the post 17 !

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u/Street_Sun4003 Certified Snacker 9h ago

A kink is a sexual behavior or practice that falls outside of standard sexual practices. (Though kinks are widely practiced and increasingly accepted as the social norm.) Kinks vary widely, with examples ranging from role-playing and age-play to breath-play (which may involve gagging or choking). Many sexual interest communities form based on a shared kinky proclivity, like bdsm.

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A fetish refers to a specific object, sexual or non-sexual body part, or behavior that must be present for one to achieve sexual arousal and enjoyment. Those with a fetish—which can range from interacting with feet to wearing a specific material, like latex—may find it difficult or impossible to experience sexual enjoyment in the absence of the object or behavior.

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

aw heck nah I don't think so she's unhinged as we're teens so 😭

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u/Street_Sun4003 Certified Snacker 9h ago

Maybe school has changed since I was in it but we had pregnant kids in middle school. High school is when people start exploring what they MIGHT like… maybe she’s in her exploration phase… you and her will go through lots of trial and errors and it’s nice to have a safe space to land when your trials don’t work

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago edited 7h ago

ok !

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u/momosuna APPROVED✨ 9h ago

why are you posting about it? lol 

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u/[deleted] 9h ago

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u/momosuna APPROVED✨ 9h ago

i mean you're free to post about whatever you want, but spreading "omg my friend embarrassed herself sooo bad we're trying to get it removed haha!" as you tell thousands of strangers online about it? kinda odd

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u/Street_Sun4003 Certified Snacker 9h ago

Just from the little bit we’ve interacted maybe she thinks you’ll judge her for her kinks. Or she feels stupid bc it got out to the gc. IF you are a safe person that’s open to being that safe space for someone exploring their sexuality let her know you are.

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

. I didn't call her a pig the people in the gc did Idk much about that and we've never talked about stuff like that so I wouldn't mention it out of the blue as I barely no anything about that and I think she doesn't either. Ty though !

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u/SapphireJuice Well-Read & Well-Fed 9h ago

I guess I'll leave a comment so I can find this and search the og post when on desktop. Android doesn't allow title copy/paste

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

oh ok I can link it if u want !

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

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u/SapphireJuice Well-Read & Well-Fed 8h ago

Omg you are an absolute queen 👑 thank you

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 8h ago

Ofc girl !

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u/PabstSmearBlueRbn Enby & Eatin' 9h ago

I have a friend that I could see doing this and I would definitely laugh about it now.

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

lol 😭

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

I wouldn't want more people seeing her embarrassing moment 😭 Also privacy reasons.

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u/Mediocre_Baker7244 eat hot chip✔️ be bisexual✔️ 9h ago

😭😭😭

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u/Fun_Profession9666 Big Back Baddie 9h ago

U need context !

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u/Ok_Astronomer5738 Sweet Tooth Fairy🧚‍♀️ 9h ago

Tell her: everything doesn’t need to be recorded 

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u/LazySeaworthiness435 Non-binary & Nourished 7h ago

everyone has something to cringe about during their high school years. honestly this is pretty tame.

I'm gonna be real, if she gets any shit or bullying on campus bc of the vid, y'all must be going to a pretty small school and your classmates must be REALLY bored...

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u/xycophant 🌶️ Spice Girl 🌶️ 7h ago