Long story short- new stray showed up that seemed way too friendly to not be someone’s lost pet, so I plucked him off the street and brought him inside to post his info around. He doesn’t seem to belong to anyone afterall, but is quickly becoming an unintended part of the family.
Short story long- I leave food and water out for the neighborhood strays and ferals, and one showed up the other night that I’d never seen before. This poor cat would get startled and paranoid at every little noise to the point that it was too scared to eat, and I was thinking man what an awful way to live. Our resident porch stray (who is very sweet but gets territorial over his spot!) came over and started making those pre-fight aggression sounds towards this white cat, so I went outside to break it up. The scared white cat ended up at the end of the driveway and I thought “I’ll just throw out a ‘pspsps’ and see what happens”… and much to my surprise this anxious cat came running right up to me! We have a LOT of strays and ferals in the neighborhood, and this is the first time a “pspsps” has worked on any of them haha. He instantly let me pet him, and he started purring as soon as I touched him. I thought “this cat is way too friendly to be a feral, it must be someone’s pet that escaped”. I didn’t want to just take a picture though in case he never showed up again, so I knew if I wanted to help I’d have to commit. So I scooped him up (which he didn’t even mind!) and brought him inside.
I posted his picture on Nextdoor and a few other places. He had a tipped ear so I knew he’d been neutered and vaxxed (which is good since I had no time to set up any sort of quarantine from my other cats!), but I was still thinking he belonged to someone and maybe just had been gone so long he got TNR’d. He was friendly but he was DESPERATELY trying to escape and get back outside, he almost broke the screen off one of my windows trying! I almost just let him back out but I was like sorry bud I already posted you online, I gotta hold onto you for at least a few days! Luckily petting him or picking him up just instantly calms him down and gets him to purr, he is just such a sweetheart. He’s so sweet in fact that I actually had to check his paws to see if he had been de-clawed because I had only ever felt his pads! (Thankfully, not de-clawed, just very polite) Anyway, after the first two days I think he realized he was safe and stopped trying to get back outside, and seemed content to just look out the window like my other indoor kitties.
I got a couple responses on Nextdoor from people thinking he was their lost cat, but he ended up not being theirs. I took him to the vet to get scanned- no chip. It was looking more and more like I had just kidnapped a stray off the street lol. I certainly wasn’t going to kick him back outside and make him terrified and homeless again, but I’d never intended to keep him. It was getting dangerous though because I had to start calling him something. I was watching the NHL playoffs at the time and they kept mentioning this one defenseman’s name over and over: Theodore. I thought, man, that’s an adorable name lol. So he became Theodore, or Teddy Bear. And he really is a teddy bear, he’s just so amiable and chill. He’s very vanilla (which fits his appearance!), doesn’t have a big personality, just seems content to be here.
Two of my original cats are completely indifferent to his presence. My 3rd cat, my CDS delivery from last summer, is the issue. She has always wanted to play with my other two cats, but they’re much older than her and she’s a bit of a psychopath when she plays, so they absolutely shut her down any time she gets near them, even if she’s just trying to headbutt or snuggle. It’s made me really sad for her and I’ve considered getting her a kitten or younger cat just so she has someone to play with that didn’t always rebuke her socialization efforts. So in comes this new chill cat, who’s seemingly quite young and playful as well. What does she do? She hates him and hisses and runs any time he gets near her lol. That’s cats for you! (I realize I didn’t do proper introduction methods, but it was a spur of the moment thing bringing him in) So I’d been thinking I should find someone to adopt/foster Teddy since I didn’t want to cause my other cat daily stress, plus 4 is a lot for my tiny apartment. But it’s been a few weeks now and she seems less horrified by his presence, the hissing has lessened, and I’ll even hear them chasing each other at night! I’m just happy they’re finally playing with each other. So he’s pretty much part of the family for the moment