I'm really sick of these dudes. They will be like, "I have plenty of male friends but now I need some free-minded female friends."

By the phrase "free-minded female friends," they mainly refer to those kinds of girls they can do sexting with, touch here and there, and get intimate with!

If a girl talks openly, wears sleeveless clothes, tight jeans, smokes cigars, does that mean the girl is willing to sleep with you?

How creepy it sounds, bhai. They are in university and are talking like this?

And also they are so jealous if some boys wear baggy jeans/drop-shoulder and if he has a lot of female friends. And they will be like, "He's just hanging out material. He is not a REAL MAN. He has no value in the marriage market. He is just flexing with his father's money; that's why he is surrounded by beautiful girls." TF!

Maybe it's true, maybe it's not. But why are these dudes so jealous?

Their Facebook wall is full of posts like...

– Free-mixing is cancer for our society. It has ruined our society.

– A woman from university can't be an ideal mother.

And they are seeking "free-minded female friends"?! How ironic it is.

I'm genuinely curious if anyone else has experienced this.

Almost every time I start talking to a guy, whether he's a senior, junior, batchmate, or someone I meet through social media—the conversation starts out normal. But within 6-7days, many of them try to turn it into sexting or sexual conversations.

I always make it clear that I'm not comfortable with that and I say no. Still, it happens over and over again.

It has reached a point where I'm wondering if I'm somehow giving off the wrong impression or if this is just a common experience for women.

Has anyone else gone through this? Why do so many guys push conversations in that direction so quickly? I'd really like to hear different perspectives.

Those of who have married their loved ones, at an early age. Like at around 21-24 years, how is your experience?
I am a Male and is expected to be have financial freedom from the age of 21, so I was planning to get married as soon as possible after that to my GF who is just 1 year younger than me, she also agrees with me.
I just want to know the landscape of BD for marrying at an comparatively young age. Like the family dynamics and etc.
Share your thoughts & experiences!

Hi Everyone, this is a question for the remote IT workers. How do you guys manage to get remote IT jobs? (e.g software engineers, cybersecurity analyst, network engineer etc) . I am not asking for freelance work. I want to know about full time remote opportunities in US and European companies.

I have autism and ADHD and my husband who is a westerner also has them too. Both of us want to visit Bangladesh so badly because I want to see what Bangladesh is like now and my husband wants to learn more about the culture. I especially am a little bit concerned about my husband because my husband’s autism and ADHD is a little more noticeable than mine. I would like to know if my husband and I are going to be safe there or not.

Hello beloved Bengali friends! Here in Argentina we want to root for you tomorrow in Cricket, but we have no idea where to watch the game!!

I hope we'll get to watch it live, but our hearts are already with you, we love you so much!

Before I say anything, I want to clarify, I am not that old. I am only in Class 10. I am not trying to make myself look superior or better than the people around me. But, I've noticed lately that my peers and even seniors seem to a bit on the immature side. Like the kinds of things they do or say isn't appropriate even for teenagers. An example is how they see women and girls. A few weeks ago, my BGS teacher was teaching us a chapter on women and domestic abuse and violence. Alot guys in my class seem to not understand the seriousness of the problem and some of them even tried defending the abusers. Alot of them are also hypersexual. Like they seem to crazy at any semblance of anything they deem "sexual". And don't even get me started on the blatant racism they show against the darker kids. Compared with other countries, our nations' kid's seem to be very behind at least in mental age.

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A junior of mine needs Microbiology textbooks for their class but doesn't know where he can download them from. Bio books are hard to come by online, would love some suggestions

Hello everyone, Im From Chittagong. Aiming for Band 8 in 3-4 months. My basic English is decent (movies, articles, casual talk). I have Cambridge 10-21 but self-study via YouTube is failing losing consistency and have zero speaking partners.

Confused about my next step. Need brutal honest advice:

1. Is "Banglay IELTS" in Ctg actually worth it for an 8, or just for beginners?

2. Should I join British Council or any other local coaching instead?

3. Would a 1-on-1 mentorship be better? If yes, then from whom? Sabbir Rahman? Munzereen Shahid?

Banglay IELTS or personal coaching or self study? Or Anyone with real experience please drop specific names.

I want advice from 7.5+ scorers especially:

· How did you stay consistent?

· Was coaching enough or self-study + partner worked?

· How did you practice Speaking when you had no partner?

Ready to grind, just don't want to waste money. Drop your genuine suggestions.

So guys i finally made a subreddit for beauty talks . Basically for talking about anything from fashion , styling outfits , skin care , makeup etc . Here please join r/BDbeautyAndFashion

I want to buy it to play wuwa but is it a good choice or should i look for another one ? And i want to use it with my ipad. And thanks for the help

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I'm planning to do small but regular investments. I like the concept of GoldKinen, which is kinda similar to DPS, but with gold.

Would you guys recommend me to invest in GoldKinen? Is there any better option than this? For small regular investments?

Hello everyone. Can anyone tell me where I can still see halogen Street lamps in dhaka? I really wanna go there to see today. Does the Manik Mia Avenue (Road in front of Parliament) still have them? Let me know quickly. TIA

একজন ভিক্ষুক যদি ইন্ট্রোভার্ট হয়, সেক্ষেত্রে তার দৈনিক আয়ে সেটা কতটা প্রভাব ফেলতে পারে?

Live abroad and I wanted to bring some bottles to drink back home. How do you guys do it? Is the security in the airport really tight?

Helloo im 15M , lately im really feeling unbearable loneliness cuz I don't really have anyone to talk to .. . And I really wanna hangout w smn or cuz m a hangout type of person so yeah , m just looking for new friends who are also like me , let's talk , and then maybe we can meet irl too and hangout

Ik it's embarrassing to say these but yeah I just don't feel good yk

Also pls be between 15-17

so i have been dating my man for almost 3 years, he dated his ex for 11 months and she cheated on him and disappeared for like a year and suddenly she joined my class out of nowhere (she apparently failed her last classes she used to be my senior) and i noticed her stalking my tiktok non stop every single day on my profile views (my profile is public) and she also gives me dirty looks in class as if i stole something from her also she has a history of calling me ugly to others i have no idea why bcs i never insulted her to anyone or said anything bad not even to my bf so it kind of made me feel insecure :/ however her stalking me has gotten very weird like she does it everyday but doesn’t interact with anything and then comes to class sits in a corner all alone and looks behind to look at me lol my friends are telling me i should confront her and ask why she’s stalking me or say something jokingly like “if u love stalking me so much u should just follow me at this point hahahahha”
nowww i need advice if i should let her be or say something to her 😛😛😝😝😆😆

Hey, i was look to buy a dumb flip phone, but couldn't seem to find any decent one online. where can i find them? bashundhara?

I know joint families are stopping but still very patriarchal and hierarchical, where mothers just be the homemaker and men be the breadwinner. But what about the size of the family? Are nuclear families still large?

Definitely much larger than my one as I am an only child with divorced parents, mother in healthcare, initially as a social worker and my father in IT both studied in Eden and Dhaka respectively. Sylhetis in the UK still are joint and live in the older variants of terraced houses (those with flats stacked above each other densely in a row close to the town centre or above cornershops) and overcrowded

So what does it look like in urban areas today?

Im leaving for a very cold country in a few months, and was wondering wether I can buy clothing (eg jackets) that can handle the cold in that country (~-20⁰C at times) from here, and if so, where can I buy these clothes?