I’m 26 and started learning to swim about a month ago. Before this, I had only been in a pool around twice in my entire life.
I’ve now had about 25 pool sessions, usually five days a week for around an hour. Only 7 sessions were with a trainer. When I started, I could barely put my face underwater and blow 2 bubbles. Now I can exhale automatically underwater, float on my front and back, and swim around 5–10 metres.
I crossed the roughly 10-metre width of the pool for the first time around my 21st session. I was completely exhausted, but I made it across. A few sessions later, I managed to cross it 3 or 4 times in a single day.
I’ve only been seriously practising freestyle for about 7–8 sessions, and my main issue is still side breathing. I often lift my head instead of rotating properly, which causes me to lose my body position and tire very quickly.
Today I was standing near the edge in the 5-feet section. I saw the trainer near the 6-feet sign and asked if I could come there. He said yes. I went underwater and completely froze. I could not move forward at all. That made me realise I’m probably nowhere near swimming the 25-metre length of the pool. At my current pace, it feels like it could take more than another 3 months.
During my initial 7 days of training, I did go into the 6.5-foot section to practise basic survival skills. But once the training ended, the coaches stopped paying attention to me, and I haven’t gone back there since because I’m too afraid to practise in that depth alone.
The trainers are not very helpful. They usually stay outside the pool and give very basic instructions from the side. I also don’t have access to many other pools or better training options, so I feel stuck.
My original goal was not to become a serious swimmer. I just wanted to feel comfortable using hotel pools instead of avoiding them. Since I can now cross the width sometimes, part of that goal feels achieved.
But freezing near 6-feet water made me question whether I will ever feel confident in deeper or unfamiliar pools, especially after spending some time away from swimming.
A 30-day membership (not training) costs NPR 7,000 about US$45. That may not sound expensive internationally, but it is a significant amount where I live. I can technically afford it, but it is still expensive enough that I’m unsure whether renewing would be worth the money.
The biggest problem for me is that I have no idea whether my progress is normal, slow, or actually good. I kept seeing posts and videos online claiming that people learned to swim in seven days, so I went in with a similar expectation.
I also don’t have any friends or family members who can swim well enough to guide me. The coaches at my pool usually handle around four people at once, and private one-on-one lessons are not available at the pools near me. Because of that, I feel like I’m mostly trying to figure everything out on my own, which has become extremely frustrating.
Honest questions:
Is this normal progress after 25 total sessions for an adult beginner?
Am I learning slowly?
Would another month of mostly self-practice help?
Does deep-water fear usually improve once swimming becomes easier in shallow water?
Would you renew in my position?