r/mildlyinfuriating 2h ago

Too mild for school I found someone needlessly passive aggressive while asking for help

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u/Naive-Landscape9854 1h ago

That's just straight up aggressive.

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u/math726 1h ago

People are too comfortable online bc of being anonymous :(

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u/Deemaunik 1h ago

Two decades old, still rings true.

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u/Angsty-Ninja-Ki 1h ago

The speech bubble sent me XD

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u/Celestialfox1425 1h ago

Exactly. I posted a vent about how it saddens me that people with my body type are always criticized and someone said that it’s because anyone who dates petite skinny women are pedos. Honestly what.

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u/WreckNTexan48 1h ago

Says anon account.....

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u/Celestialfox1425 1h ago

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u/WreckNTexan48 1h ago

Not even the same account name bot

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u/Alternative-Potato43 1h ago

Needlessnessly, pointlessly aggressive. Like, no shit it's not your problem. They're asking for help.

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u/chris14020 1h ago

Some people are so miserable they can't contain it all within themselves. 

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u/Shazvox 1h ago

Misery likes company, as they say.

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u/Steampson_Jake 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/SeraphiM0352 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/Beartato4772 1h ago

How is this helpful?

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u/rtkane GREEPLE 1h ago

Wow so now comments are required to be helpful? I'm not helping you, I don't see a rule or anything saying "Every" single comment needs to be helpful, Cry About It.

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u/vNovaEclipse 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/quailinthebrush 1h ago

How is this helpful?

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u/jonnywarlock 1h ago

Wow so now comments are required to be helpful? I'm not helping you, I don't see a rule or anything saying "Every" single comment needs to be helpful, Cry About It.

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u/usrdef 👍 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/I_-AM-ARNAV i get infuriated a lot 1h ago

How is this helpful?

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u/IamFarron 1h ago

Wow so now comments are required to be helpful? I'm not helping you, I don't see a rule or anything saying "Every" single comment needs to be helpful, Cry About It

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u/VeryLargeTardigrade 1h ago

Wow so now comments are required to be helpful? I'm not helping you, I don't see a rule or anything saying "Every" single comment needs to be helpful, Cry About It.

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u/AccidentProne117 1h ago

How is this helpful?

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u/mukduk1994 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/Beartato4772 1h ago

I'll be honest, I only replied so someone would actually have to type the whole thing.

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u/rtkane GREEPLE 1h ago

iOS allowing you to copy text from pics makes it super easy. :)

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u/Beartato4772 1h ago

Godamnit!

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u/rtkane GREEPLE 1h ago

Not my problem!

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u/nedyrd87 1h ago

Oh this one is my problem actually.

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u/reddevils7070 1h ago edited 1h ago

You’re being needlessly passive aggressive. They’re just asking for help.

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u/NoctRob 1h ago

Welcome to Reddit

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u/EarsDownKnivesUp 1h ago

Where’s the passive part😂

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u/TwentinQuarantino 1h ago edited 1h ago

Just a reminder, when you argue with someone on reddit this is what they most likely look like. Hope it helps.

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

And this is what the op looks like, hope it helps

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u/bikerchickelly 1h ago

Just checking, you know you are OP here, right?

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u/secretacc123453 1h ago

yes they do they’re joking

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u/_AYYEEEE 1h ago

They were probably sitting at their desk with their duel monitors on, typing this comment on their phone and wiggling their crusty toes as they wrote it

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u/k-phi 1h ago

duel monitors

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u/Marquar234 1h ago

What's wrong with dual monitors?

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u/BroccoliLanius 1h ago

Rich

They must be eaten

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u/Kytalie 1h ago

Dual monitors doesn't = rich anymore. Some people wfh and they get one sent by work! There are no rules about using those for only work related tasks.

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u/Weird-Girl-675 1h ago

I’ve had dual monitors forever as I got used to them at work and wanted them at home. Came in handy when COVID hit and we had to work from home.

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u/WhenAmI 1h ago

They could just be financially irresponsible. I knew several people in my 20's who made like $12/hr and had dual monitor setups.

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u/_AYYEEEE 1h ago

There's nothing wrong with a dual monitor in itself but if I'm saying that the guy in the comment was using his phone to type comments on reddit while looking at 2+ screens which makes it crazy lol. It's crazy to me how people will pick up their phone to do something when they have like 3 monitors glowing in front of their face

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u/sleepykdagreat 1h ago

Yeah but I can't use Tinder and Feeld on computer!

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u/uncl3s4m 1h ago

Huh? You're weird

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u/Shazvox 1h ago

Heck no! I don't wear glasses anymore...

... but I do need to shave...

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u/Mysterious_Cry41 1h ago

Is this someone known? I hope this guy is a huge piece of shit either way. 

Imagine if he's just the nicest, most down to earth dude ever and his picture is shared around like this. 

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u/DisorderlyAqueduct 1h ago

passive? this is straight to aggressive 😆

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u/_AYYEEEE 1h ago

Just people on reddit being annoying as fuck as per usual

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u/Ecstatic_Score6973 1h ago

Yeah the people on this site love arguing about literally nothing, ive literally had people argue with me even when they agree with what i was saying, i dont understand it

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u/2ndTaken_username 1h ago

Is it your problem?

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u/eugeneugene 1h ago

Not my problem.

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u/RudeAlbatross544 1h ago

Definitely not mine.

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u/BoofinChicknTendies 1h ago

Not my chair not my problem that’s what I say

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u/tanukiscrotum 1h ago

If you don’t like a lighthouse you suck

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u/makingkevinbacon 1h ago

Seahorses... forever

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u/ashwin_niwhsa 1h ago

What a dick head

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u/madeformarch 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/Fun-Nefariousness146 1h ago

How is this helpful ?

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u/IamFarron 1h ago

Wow so now comments are required to be helpful? I'm not helping you, I don't see a rule or anything saying "Every" single comment needs to be helpful, Cry About It

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u/MrPogoUK 1h ago

While I don’t know what you originally posted, it would seem appropriated for your next reply to point out it’s not a requirement to comment at all.

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u/RudeAlbatross544 1h ago

"I'll comment if I want to." is what you'd get.

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u/Doodiecarrier 1h ago

I missed the part where that's my problem

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u/Impossible-North-396 1h ago

Welcome to the joys of Reddit and being anonymous

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u/Kevdog824_ 1h ago

This sub in a nutshell

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u/Horror-Guava5323 1h ago

Without context this is just a shitpost

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u/AlternativeFluffy310 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/ToeGroundbreaking564 1h ago

there's a perfect amount of context here, I dunno what you're smoking, but lay off it

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u/Chrismaxwell19 1h ago

“I dunno what you’re smoking, but lay off it” 🤓🤓
https://giphy.com/gifs/nc5NsaHrmTKz5GA2Zg

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u/AlarmingDelivery9311 1h ago

Should have been an insta ban from whatever sub but true to fashion mods dont.

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u/ayu_xi 1h ago

Yeah that guy is ass but this post will get you banned in this sub.

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

?

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u/ayu_xi 1h ago

Breaks two rules of this subreddit. 1. Post should not be related to reddit. That includes any interaction within reddit. 2. No doxing, you should not make visible username of any other individual that can be used to reach them

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

I can just wait until it gets taken down I guess

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u/Asgarus 1h ago

I guess because you didn't hide the assholes name.

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u/Adorable-Bass-7742 1h ago

Hey, op. This sub has rule against reddit threaded posts

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u/Critical_Code9588 1h ago

Seems like a troll trying to upset you

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u/Lovemestalin 1h ago

So you are now actually crying about it?

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

Weep weep

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u/Rude-Tune-1621 1h ago

Thats a punchable offense

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u/Shazvox 1h ago

OP I think the healthiest thing you can do is just let it go. You're playing right into the trolls hands by getting this upset about it.

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

I mean I didn’t respond after because genuinely what the fuck can you even say to that

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u/Shazvox 1h ago

No, but you did go and make an entirely new post about it.

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u/mo181918 1h ago

This attitude is a good representation of the toxic side of American individualism.

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u/SecondOfCicero 1h ago

You're delusional if you think thay is purely a yank problem

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u/willnye2cool 1h ago

Well was there a rule saying his comment had to be helpful?

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u/milkdrinkingdude 1h ago

Was there a rule saying one can’t inquire about helpfulness?

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u/FartFaceAnn BROWN 1h ago

When I went to Disney when I was 6 I met this girl at one of the water parts (may have been part of the resort we were staying at) and I was so glad to have another friend my age. I said “we’re friends let’s go down the slides together” and she went “I don’t have to be your friend” and ran away. I was so embarrassed, I had that fat little kid beat red look

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u/Wda18 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/Best_Revolution_178 1h ago

Im glad he sound pissed 😂

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u/ghunterx21 1h ago

Sadly some people are just cunts.

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u/csch1992 1h ago

Not my problem

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u/FungusGnatHater 1h ago

Neither of you contribute anything of value to the conversation and get upset about the other acting the same way...

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u/PawnWithoutPurpose 1h ago

I mean it looks like you were being passive aggressive, and they were just being aggressive

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u/thethighren 1h ago

don't feed the troll

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u/PeachManzie 1h ago

“What a sad little life, Jane.”

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u/gitsgrl 1h ago edited 1h ago

As they used to say in the early days of the Internet, “Don’t feed the trolls.”

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u/i_likesocks 1h ago

It’s giving middle brother.

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u/OnlyIntrons 1h ago

Not my circus, not my monkeys

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u/ProtectMeAtAllCosts 1h ago

thats a chat bot, sir

1

u/Nikond3400 1h ago

The biggest waste of atoms in the universe

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u/KezH0 1h ago

Tell bro to fuck off then

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u/Large-Remove-1348 1h ago

The unfortunate part of using reddit because it's actually a good social platform is that a ton of people also decided it's the social platform they'd use to love minors and body pillows

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u/expertninja 1h ago

This is a bot, part of a botnet that is attempting to corrupt Reddit and make it less pleasant for actual humans. They are trying to make this site aggravating and shitty. It’s an epidemic.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Bad_116 1h ago

And i found someone needlessly being a dick on someone's post

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u/Noligarchio 1h ago

Passive? Yeah, nah this is just full send jerk behavior

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u/Nghtmare-Moon 1h ago

Youve been trolled

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u/c0mander5 1h ago

I'm not even this insufferable when I'm catastrophically depressed. How miserable do you need to be

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u/throwAwayMan2475 1h ago edited 1h ago

Hopefully they're just trolling and don't actually think this is a practical/ideal interaction. Otherwise that just sucks, especially on what apparently is a help sub? And some people below is agreeing with the commenter?

It's sad that you have to play mind games all the time instead of just.. simply going from X to Y

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u/KarlPHungus 1h ago

Some people are just assholes. It's frustrating but just the reality. Block them and move on. It's all you can do. Shrug.

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u/curiousisopod 1h ago

POV: Posting on Stack overflow looking for help with my little coding issue after my school encouraged using online forums.

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u/So_HauserAspen 1h ago

The downfall of society started with people like that

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u/miaxogoth 1h ago

Relax, he's just not having a good day.

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u/StarsBear75063 Really? 1h ago

Wow so now comments are required to be civil? 😝😝😝

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u/BackgroundWaltz3600 1h ago

I don’t care

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u/lyinggrump 1h ago

Not my problem.

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u/Shik3i 1h ago

He seems to have a very very bad day

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u/eatdontpraylove 1h ago

For me it’s the person responding that is being unnecessarily aggressive. The person asking for help isn’t wrong for calling them out. Why do you feel that’s passive aggressive?

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

Because if I say aggressive then I’m over reacting

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u/eatdontpraylove 1h ago

What is aggressive about calling them out for being rude to a person asking for help? I’m just not understanding.

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u/StickyBunnsPlus 1h ago

Hey let us see your feed. I just wanna talk to em.

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u/Scorching_Fire 1h ago

Someone has a sad life situation, and manages emotions by spreading the problem to others. That's just distasteful...

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u/Psyallica 1h ago

Sir this is Reddit.

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

And it was a help sub, mama sir chicken

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u/comox 1h ago

First time here?

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

It was a help sub

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u/glordicus1 1h ago

Eh. I agree. Its an open forum, who fucking cares?

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u/Smooth_Brilliant4083 1h ago

I had one recently. I flagged them up as 'hate'. They were removed from my life. Lol.

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u/AdUpset7847 1h ago

Makes a post crying about it 😂

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u/qu1kslvr 1h ago

Painfully based

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u/LaughAtFarts 1h ago

Not our problem.

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u/jordanfarragon 1h ago

I don’t see the point of this post

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u/Anthr30YearOldBoomer 1h ago

That guy was based

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u/Lolasurf101 1h ago

Why is Organic Post so angry 😭😭😭

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u/rz_00221 1h ago

Context?

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

I had a technical issue with payment and not getting my refund after weeks, so I asked if who I can contact or what can I do in the situation on a help sub

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u/eliedacc 1h ago

He cooked you ngl

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u/SillyOldJack 1h ago

Not really. Randomly being a dick isn't "cooking," it's just being a dick.

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u/lorathi-sellsword 1h ago

you must be fun at parties

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u/fruite_vampyre 1h ago

Once a child spet on me on the bus, I don’t feel cooked I feel the exact same way when that happened

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u/hellfire-r9x 1h ago

Cooked? Bro is just whinging over nothing

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u/lorathi-sellsword 1h ago

OP is literally crying about it, lol

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u/SpiritEntity 1h ago

How is this helpful?

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u/IamFarron 1h ago

Wow so now comments are required to be helpful? I'm not helping you, I don't see a rule or anything saying "Every" single comment needs to be helpful, Cry About It

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u/lorathi-sellsword 1h ago

Wow so now comments are required to be helpful? I'm not helping you, I don't see a rule or anything saying "every" single comment needs to be hepful, cry about it.

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u/selfmade-idiot 1h ago

not my problem

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u/StatisticianHead5009 1h ago

How is this helpful?