r/MadeMeSmile 5d ago

Wholesome Moments For 16 years, couple goes to the same restaurant and wears the same clothes to celebrate their anniversaries

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u/TheMaesonic 5d ago

AGE DAMN IT AGE

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u/deathonater 5d ago

There's a portrait of them in the attic of that restaurant that is aging normally.

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u/Mandatory_Attribute 5d ago

The portrait of Dory, and Grey.

Their last names, probably…

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u/Red_Wanderer878 5d ago

What is their skincare routine and diet to look the same all these years?!

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u/WeAreTheMisfits 5d ago

You have to eat at that restaurant

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u/MortgageRegular2509 5d ago

But only once a year, and you must always wear the same clothes

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u/Horskr 5d ago edited 5d ago

Now I'm trying to zoom into menus to find this restaurant fountain of youth.

"BABE! I found this new restaurant possibly on the other side of the country we have to eat at for our anniversary every year!.. also make sure to wear something comfortable and durable!"

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u/bolanrox 5d ago

It's fucking chilis. It's just a fountain of sodium.

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u/refusegone 5d ago

Makes sense, sodium is a preservative.

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u/NexrayOfficial 5d ago

Im fucking weak bro 😭

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u/T-Bills 5d ago

Lol for real right in the 3rd picture

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u/GovernmentOpening254 5d ago

Several 🌶️ abound throughout the photos.

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u/ImplementCharming949 5d ago

U win internet

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u/Has_Recipes 5d ago

As it is written

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u/George_Is_Upset 5d ago

Chili’s is pretty good NGL

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u/-_slim-shady_- 5d ago

chili’s baaaaby back ribs 🎶

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u/GovernmentOpening254 5d ago

x2…

Bar-be-cue sauce

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u/SunshineAlways 5d ago

I miss those decorative tile inlay tables, and the “warmer” decor.

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u/Nerdrage30 5d ago

I ate there for the first time in my life like a month ago because the restaurant beside it that we wanted to go to was full, it ended up being really good

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u/Ancientabs 5d ago

I crave their salsa randomly

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u/tequilaneat4me 5d ago

Had a tire fixed at Discount Tire yesterday. They were packed. Three hours to fix. Chili's was down the road. Basket of chips and two bowls of salsa.

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u/Ancientabs 5d ago

Chili's employees throwing nails into the road

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u/tequilaneat4me 5d ago

Flat was 40 miles away. South Padre Island.

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u/bdd1001 5d ago

I waited tables at Chili's in college and here's my favorite takeaway: Order the chips and salsa and a side of ranch. Dip the chips into the ranch, and then into the salsa. Trust me, it's phenomenal.

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u/musicalsigns 5d ago

I'll have what she's having.

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u/Poethegardencrow 5d ago

And be perpetually pregnant I suppose

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u/Background-Air-7963 5d ago

Black don’t crack and Asian don’t raisin

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u/FalconsArentReal 5d ago

Those kids will never age

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u/Unfurlingleaf 5d ago

Well... not until we're like 70 anyways

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u/koreanforrabbit 5d ago

And then when it does hit... WHABAM.

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u/oaklandorbrokeland 5d ago

not rocket science brotha. stay out of the sun, use sunscreen if you do, stay hydrated, 8 hrs sleep.

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u/jigsaw1024 5d ago

Eat a balanced diet with lots of fruit and vegetables, get some activity in your life, be social, avoid stress as much as possible, avoid vices: drugs, alcohol, gambling, smoking.

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u/Calypsosin 5d ago

Bonus points: genetics

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u/katgravityrush_ 5d ago

avoid stress as much as possible

Have you existed in the world lately

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u/LurkingRodent 5d ago

Some years ago I had a heavy burnout incident because of my job, ended up in the hospital, some months after I quit and took a break of 3 months (with the money I had saved).

Found a 9-5 wfm job that paid less but I didn't have to even think about it after my shift, life was good again, started making new plans, then the chip crisis happened and now I'm stressed because my main hobby is becoming unaffordable. Guess I'll have to win the lottery to find peace again.

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u/SadMap7915 5d ago

Avoid vices?! I am here on this earth because of vices!

If you don't mind, I'll take a few of them, topped off with some wrinkles, thank you very much

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u/Upper-Boot-8086 5d ago

Thiss. It’s so funny too cause I used to have tons of ppl poking fun at me (still do to this day) for covering up / wearing hat / always wearing sunblock. Sayin I look pasty. & Look at them now. Lookin 10+ years older than me when were the same age. I was like I told yall that shit was gonna turn u into cracked leather 💀

ppl think it’s real cute to have a ‘tan’ that lasts them a week max for the “enticing” trade off of 10 years worth of skin aging n damage.. apparently 🤣

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u/goosey27 5d ago

Y'all know the saying - Black don't crack and Asian don't raisin

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u/Brave_Meet8430 5d ago

It’s not skincare, it’s how genuinely they love each other, hence almost a stress less marriage aka a very happy marriage!

That’s the secret. Imho

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u/PinkSideEye 5d ago

so true, the glow really is just from being loved right. skincare can only do so much, real happiness shows on the face way more

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u/MattIsLame 5d ago

not being white

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u/HendrixHazeWays 5d ago

Am I the only one who is actually going to address what a lot of us are thinking? I have to be the one to say the obvious?

......Blue and orange pair up GREAT together.

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u/shes_a_gdb 5d ago

They're complementary colors...

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u/FalconsArentReal 5d ago

You had me worried in the first half, ngl

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u/agentorange777 5d ago

I mean it's paired up often. Just look at how many pro sports teams do blue/orange combos.

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u/Mandatory_Attribute 5d ago

Maybe they’re born with it… Maybe it’s Maybelline!

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u/happymanhobbies123 5d ago

Bro aging like a fine wine

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u/SaltKick2 5d ago
  1. Take care of your skin - sunscreen etc..
  2. Start taking pictures in your early 20s
  3. Stay healthy
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u/Constant-Funny1817 5d ago

Fitting into the same outfits after 16 years is impressive, at least to me!

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u/monkey_trumpets 5d ago

Especially after that many kids

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u/SUDDENLY_VIRGIN 5d ago

Weird

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u/Hot_Porking 5d ago

It's not weird to be Asian. Statistically most of the world is from the continent of Asia.

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u/AthenasFaithful 5d ago

So, statistically speaking, it's weird to not be Asian.

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u/DreadLockedHaitian 5d ago

Correct.

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u/Hot_Porking 5d ago

Statistically, 正确的

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u/dectk731 5d ago

I think if fitting into a specific outfit exactly once a year was my motivation, I'd do a much better job of staying in shape.

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u/falcrist2 5d ago

Start a new tradition today.

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u/Mediocre-Proposal686 5d ago

They are a great looking couple in general. Their kids won the good-looking genes lottery!

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u/faraine82 5d ago

The guy is a vampire! He stayed the same for 16 years.

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u/010u3 5d ago edited 5d ago

Yeah, I can’t lie, he’s completely outed himself with these photos haha

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u/Know_how_to_b_stupid 5d ago

Wouldn’t appear on the pictures if he was a vampire. Come on. He is obviously a man who built a Time Machine and travel to the same night, and going one year jumps, hence the same outfits.

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u/010u3 5d ago

My goodness… it was right there in front of us the whole time

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u/Quinnmeister 5d ago

Could he appear in pictures if the camera was mirrorless? That would be an interesting twist on vampire lore

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u/regoapps 5d ago

Plot twist: They took all the photos within the same time frame and just got different aged child actors for each "year".

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u/AssociationDry73 5d ago

Ha I made this same comment

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u/Time_Pomegranate2787 5d ago

I was thinking “how did neither of them age? She birthed 4 children and looks the same? How?”

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u/faraine82 5d ago

Another theory, all the photos are taken in the same night and they hired the children. Both are using the same clothes on all the photos.

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u/Time_Pomegranate2787 5d ago

Haha. How many children would they have to hire to appear as if they’re all four aging in increments of 1 year? Like 25 children?

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u/crystallizedo 5d ago

They hired the children 😭

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u/ExperienceKind412 5d ago

For real, my friend had a baby and I watched her age 5 years in 1. Our girl there is a vamp as well

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u/sidepart 5d ago

Must be that whole Matrix residual self image thing! They figured out how to manipulate it. Meanwhile in that same period I lost my hair and my beard is greying the fuck out! Shit, I ain't even the same redditor I was 16 years ago.

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u/RagingNerdaholic 5d ago

Black and Asian parents' kids are gonna look immortal until they're 90.

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u/asbyo 5d ago

And she seemingly got even more attractive!!

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u/Clean_Improvement913 5d ago

It can happen when you are happy and stress free

And a vampire

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u/Hopeful-Mirror1664 5d ago

Four kids and stress free is a rare thing.

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u/Clean_Improvement913 5d ago

Yes it is rare, and mom must have been a large contribution to staying stress free

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u/Nords1981 5d ago

As my good friend will tell me, "black don't crack". He also smells suspiciously of cocoa butter from as far as 20 ft away... stay young forever Marcus!

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u/jcoddinc 5d ago

Nah, he proved he's human. Went from not being able to have any facial hair to getting a five o'clock shadow

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u/monkey_trumpets 5d ago

Well, you know what they say....

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u/Maffew74 5d ago

Asian don’t raisin!

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u/ZombieDingDong 5d ago

I heard about black don’t crack. But whites all right too! So jealous of them both!

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u/Bromlife 5d ago

She’s Asian bro.

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u/jiZZmstrZero 5d ago

Asian don't raisin

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u/Apart-Remote1101 5d ago

I was thinking the same thing. These people don't age??

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u/CenturyB0i 5d ago

Black dont crack

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u/Rude-Violinist-9538 5d ago

bro found the one cheat code for aging apparently just skip the updates for 16 years

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u/Bright-Map-9705 5d ago

That's beautiful. The evolution of a family through a simple yearly activity marking an anniversary.

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u/reddoorinthewoods 5d ago

Seriously! So sweet

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u/tymtt 5d ago

Looks more like the longest meal ever

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u/HottieMcHotHot 5d ago

I had to go back and figure out where the 4th kid came in. Looks like sometime during year 10 and 11.

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u/agentorange777 5d ago

The photos are cropped weird after they have the 3rd kid. some of them are focused on the kids and some of them are focused on the couple. She looks pretty far along in pregnancy to me in year 10 and then in year 11 she's holding the baby in her lap and one of the older kids is cropped out of the top right corner.

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u/NapORcoffee 5d ago

Me too! Came to the same conclusion as you.

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u/JikkaThesorus 5d ago

We gonna need a bigger table soon.

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u/demona2002 5d ago

What a gorgeous family!

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u/EpsteinsEggPeen 5d ago

Honestly, these people are who I do it for. I'm never going to live a life I enjoy, but it's nice knowing that by doing my part, people are out there having beautiful moments and raising the future of our world in a safe place.

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u/cloudcottage 5d ago

Now kiss

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u/Intrepid_Finish456 5d ago

A lot of people would complain at the "monotony" of it all. I love that they can take the time to simply appreciate each other and the family they've built.

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u/Tepeshe 5d ago

This. Life and rat race goes to fast. We have to consciously stand still and appreciate what we have if possible.

I love this series. It's, at least, a once a year sign of impeccable stability which is for most not that easy.

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u/AgentFoo 5d ago

Okay, props to mom for fitting into the same clothes after that many kids.

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u/HBlight 5d ago

"First date wear something loose so you can be pregnant in it at any point in the next decade and a half"

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u/bimm3r36 5d ago

Dude every time I drop that before the date, the girl doesn’t show up. What am I doing wrong?

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u/Taylor-Day 5d ago

Just keep doing you. The right one will say yes. (Or the crazy one)

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u/BayBandit1 5d ago

Absolutely amazing. A restaurant that has stayed in business for 16 years.

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u/Cimonaa 5d ago

Them blurring their kids instantly brought about a lot of respect from me.. these are good people.

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u/Conscious-Weight4569 5d ago

It was me who blurred out the faces 🫣, otherwise someone would’ve called me out on it.

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u/Zuzublue 5d ago

That was nice of you

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u/musical_dragon_cat 5d ago

Oh dang! My comment is moot now 😅 My deepest respects to you, good samaritan

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u/WordsAtRandom 5d ago

It's a disgrace that we have to

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u/Chance-Today-7663 5d ago

Hell yeah Chili's

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u/That_Gamer_Guy94 5d ago

My fiancée and I do this every year where we had our first date

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u/melkatron 5d ago

So did we, and we reserved the same table we sat at. Unfortunately, the food quality took a dive about 12 years in, so we stopped punishing ourselves. The streak was broken the first year of covid anyway.

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u/TinKnight1 5d ago

That's why you do what the original couple did, & go to a major chain restaurant that never really changes.

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u/melkatron 5d ago

Yeeaaaahhh, it was BJ's. Didn't expect them to fall off so hard.

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u/TinKnight1 5d ago

With BJ's, I think it's heavily location-based (maybe their franchise model gives leeway to the local operators?). The one near me was still pretty good the last time I went, but another one on the other side of the city definitely was "Meh" the last time I went on a date there before Covid.

That sucks that your plans fell through!

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u/DistanceRelevant3899 5d ago

Somebody forgot to tell them they’re supposed to age

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u/FracturedFlow 5d ago

Bro built an army

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u/ScallionRelative6265 5d ago

If you watch the pictures backwards it tells a very chilling story about absorbing children for eternal youth.

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u/FlayBoCrop 5d ago

In three years they’ll have 15 kids. 

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u/RamRanchRealty 5d ago

I hope they do this forever 😭 the kids 😭

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u/musical_dragon_cat 5d ago

Idk, it'd be crazy if they kept having kids, but I agree otherwise

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u/Chuck-You-Two 5d ago

Did they have a kid every other year!? Good lawd.

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u/cherrytwizzlers 5d ago

But she never looks pregnant

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u/HBlight 5d ago

They go make a new kid on their anniversary night.

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u/delphine1041 5d ago

The last one to show up, in year 13, doesn't look baby-sized.

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u/Boomflag13 5d ago

Black don’t crack.

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u/Want2BnOre 5d ago

I love this. So sweet

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u/musical_dragon_cat 5d ago edited 5d ago

Bless them OP for blurring the kids' faces, that's responsible posting!

Edit: I misattributed the blurs to the parents

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u/Conscious-Weight4569 5d ago

It was actually me who blurred out the faces…responsible Redditing!

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u/Paisley_Sparkling24 5d ago

Sixteen years of showing up for each other that's the part that matters most

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u/MunchmaKoochy 5d ago

I could not love this more. Thanks for actually making me smile.

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u/yoosernaam 5d ago

This is very cute

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u/ClifftonSmith 5d ago

This one genuinely made me smile. Very cool

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u/Lemon_Trees-22 5d ago

That’s cool like a family tradition!

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u/changingshades 5d ago

there is so much about this i love. them being together. them doing this. the family getting bigger and being happy. the restaraunt being around this long

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u/shaheimjay1121 5d ago

Can’t wait to find this!

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u/Separate-Giraffe4780 5d ago

I want to know how they kept his shirt that blue the whole time

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u/anniearrow 5d ago

I want to know how they fit in the same clothes after the first year

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u/moebius21 5d ago

My wife and I don't go to the exact same restaurant for our dateaverssary, mostly because it would be a bit of a drive, but we do go to an O'Charleys if we can. That was our first date dinner. We don't wear the exact same clothes though so what these people are doing is pretty cool.

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u/burf 5d ago

Michael Scott approved anniversary location

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u/ItsAndyrew 5d ago

They felt God in that Chili’s that night.

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u/The_Cakinator 5d ago

That man couldn't pull out of his driveway.

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u/CrazyCaliCatLady 5d ago

Here's what I think. They took all these pics in one day. They just kept adding fingers and kids to their photos. Or vampirism.

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u/Z4ch_Mk6 5d ago

DAMN, they got busy 🤣🤣😂

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u/Electronic-Couple667 4d ago

This is lovely ☺️ they really made a great couple

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u/krammit33 4d ago

Why is everyone surprised that black don't crack? I thought this was a well known fact.

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u/Conor_88 5d ago

Aging like fine wine

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u/Jotas829 5d ago

Get off her dood lol

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u/BoxBird 5d ago

Those kids are going to live forever the parents didn’t age at all 😭

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u/RostyNoman 5d ago

Nothing I love more than seeing people blur kids, this is the way. Your kids deserve privacy. 

Looks like awesome couple

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u/Antwolies770 5d ago

Plot twist: They took all the photos on the same day

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u/munzter 5d ago

They're multiplying!

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u/froction 5d ago

The gf and I eat at the same table in the same restaurant every year on the anniversary of our first date, but so far it has only been four.

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u/ToddWilliams5289 5d ago

Damn, how many kids do they plan on having?

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u/LucianTP 5d ago

That’s just so beautiful,

There’s something about having your person and I’ve been with my wife for a long time but we’re still in our 20s

Thinking of 16 years just makes me tear up, so beautiful

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u/maomao05 5d ago

This couple just don’t age huh ?!

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u/Sad_Wasabi1116 5d ago

mtfk didnt age wwtf

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u/nmeeks50 5d ago

Love this!!!!!! They were blessed with a beautiful family!

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u/sleepsalot1 5d ago

This is so adorable

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u/Uuuuugggggghhhhh 5d ago

The restaurant should be consulting them and paying them as an advertisement for their cuisine.

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u/Which_Consequence110 5d ago

That's a lovely tradition.

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u/GMSB 5d ago

Apparently no one in these comments knows about how black don’t crack

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u/St_v_e 5d ago

Good for the restaurant, they’ve stayed in business all that time

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u/NoDifference3349 4d ago

This is very sweet...but the thing I appreciate the most is how he puts up a three like how I do it and she does it how my wife does it.

Relevant Inglorious Basterds

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u/tino-tonitini 4d ago

This is what life is all about. It isn’t about the glitz and glam. It’s about finding joy in the simple things. I can tell they have the happiest life because they’re happy with what they have. I love people who find joy in simplicity. It’s beautiful

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u/EarlGrey1806 5d ago

What a wonderful family! I love how each pictures seem to have an additional adorable child. Many blessings for you and your family.

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u/matchamamiplum 5d ago

omg my heart is actually melting reaching for the tissues rn lol😭 this is literally the cutest thing ive seen all day, talk about relationship goals!!

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u/abvn 5d ago

Beautiful family! Wishing them all the best, always!

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u/Jastreen 5d ago

Big beautiful smiles, love it

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u/Prestigious-Copy-494 5d ago

Pretty cute couple and family.

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u/OrangeClyde 5d ago

I love this

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u/LegibleLabia 5d ago

Surprised that the restaurant lasted that long

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u/aztechnogeek8 5d ago

Impressive they can still fit into their clothes

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u/ditchdiggergirl 5d ago

Wonderful tradition. Smart of them to choose simple easy clothing and an inexpensive family friendly restaurant.

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u/Practical_Jelly_8342 5d ago

Most amazing thing is a restaraunt being around for 16 years

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u/Western-Sport500 5d ago

Love this!

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u/GuardianCraft 5d ago

Nice! Lovely family, and keep it up.

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u/Alongjr555 5d ago

That's awesome 👌🏻

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u/Silly_Double408 5d ago

where the hell do you buy your clothes from that they last 16 years.. please share.

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u/Mutex70 5d ago

Are they vampires? Why don't they age?!?!?

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u/exgiexpcv 5d ago

That is one wholesomely photogenic family!!!

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u/Ok-Contribution-6716 5d ago

They aged really well

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u/PestoBolloElemento 5d ago

Amazing, wishing you the best 🌟

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u/ayemateys 5d ago

OMG THIS IS SO CUTE I CANNOT!!! Married 25 years and saved the clothes we first met in!!! Wish we did this!!

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u/BullfrogBroad2617 5d ago

Bros hairline didn’t flinch

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u/parbear27 5d ago

May this love find me

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u/botics305 5d ago

Doing something right!