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u/hatecirclejerks 11h ago
I thought about sending "wanna see my boobs" just to shake things up, but figured it would be in bad taste.
Sorry OP, imagine you blowing them up with your mind, makes me feel better
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u/Hungry_CGman 11h ago edited 10h ago
I'm a man, and I've literally never sent anything like this in my life. The sheer lack of self awareness and how brain dead this is mind numbing. The craziest part is they think it will finally work even though it has never worked. I've also never paid for an OF page or a porno site. I must be some kind of last human specie (Denisovan?) walking the planet. lol
Saying that, how do they even know you are a female on reddit? It's like the last thing I'm thinking about on here. I thought it was just a place to erase time.
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u/CrazyPlatypus42 10h ago
Most people haven't and will never do it, I remember seeing a study about that, it doesn't even represent a few % of social media users, but they send their shit to so many people that basically every woman feels constantly harassed... I always find it sad to see what a few bad apples can reach...
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u/b20339 10h ago
It's more hand ringing for the anti men crowd
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u/Carnivean_ 9h ago
If you aren't anti this behaviour then you are part of the anti-men crowd. Real men don't do this.
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u/b20339 9h ago
It's no different than the fact that I've been cheated on by 3 out of the four women I've had long-term relationships with, that doesn't mean I get to judge 75% of women as cheaters.
Instead I'm an adult that understands logic and reasoning, and I completely understand that my experience is a very limited window compared to the vast human experience that other people have so I don't project my experiences on other people.
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u/faithOver 9h ago
Bruh. Totally with you. Who’s all the weirdos out there paying for porn when there infinity free porn. And who is trying to use this wasteland of a site for anything other than brain rot. Diabolical.
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u/Logical-Speaker-6795 10h ago
The funny thing is, that a lot of these would probably work on some gay men. They are just fishing for the wrong demographic...
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u/crystal-cadaver 11h ago
“Want to come to lake Gnangara and watch me wank” is lowkey funny asf tho I cannot lie
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u/Araiah14 10h ago
I honestly believe these guys doing this would freeze and babble if ever faced with these women in real life. Like they never got past a 4th grade social level..
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u/Trade-Working 9h ago
Bro, I swear, I keep apologizing to women on behalf of my gender, because goddamn some of us are TERRIBLE
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u/Technical-Platypus-8 10h ago
Reddit is definitely not a community you want to reveal much about yourself within. I recommend making your profile private
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u/gbach10 10h ago
And I’ve got 100 emails and DM’s from girls with their tits out advertising their OF pages. Whats your point?
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u/Impossible-Bat-4246 10h ago
I have zero of those. What were you wearing to attract such attention?
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u/b20339 10h ago
Oh so now your victim blaming?
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u/Impossible-Bat-4246 10h ago
Yes. Yes I am. They must have been the cause of all those OF DM's.
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u/b20339 9h ago
Are we both being overly sarcastic right now?
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u/b20339 10h ago
I don't know why you're getting downvoted the double standard is ridiculous
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u/No-Reputation-8643 8h ago
i mean he's 100% getting downvoted for the "what's your point?" which is basically saying that op shouldn't share her own experiences with sexual harassment just because commenter has also dealt with sexual harassment.
plus, i don't see how that's a double standard, how are people even supposed to know about men also experiencing harassment if it's literally only brought up to be a dick to the female op
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u/legacy-of-rats 7h ago
This is huge point and unfortunately part of why men being victims are not met with as much sympathy. So often men only point out what happens to other men as a way to invalidate a woman's experiences. So do those men actually care about the suffering of men who are victims? Are they actually proactive and wanting to give them a voice? Do they ever even think or talk about the issue aside from using it to invalidate a woman? Often, those men are just using as a tool for them in the context of a woman being a victim, which is extremely unfair to men who are also victims. It's harmful no matter how you swing it...
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u/Hungry_CGman 4h ago
He's getting downvoted because every dude that visits any of the XXX pages on Reddit get emails from the girls. It's spam.
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u/JKdito 8h ago
Fucking hell, I aint no feminist(prefer equality) but things like this is why feminism is needed. Ffs guys, get a life.
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u/legacy-of-rats 8h ago
?
Feminism DOES push for equality...
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u/JKdito 7h ago
Maybe in theory but in practise, women are more prioritised than men(atleast where I live). Every movement is extreme to be effective, I dont attack the movement but I cant say I support it either. Treat everyone as equal, dont employ someone just because its looks good in public opinion for example. I have seen too much negative impact from the movement. I have seen too much negative impact from the Sigma male movement aswell. Extremism. Its effective cause it attracts mindless sheep who sees the world in black or white.
All I want is for the women in my social circle to be safe, healthy and have same opportunities as men. Give them more or easier just because they are women is overdoing it which might be needed to change things but it also steers us closer to a artificial reality that will have extreme consequences.
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u/legacy-of-rats 7h ago
Please just know that the "feminists" you are talking about make true feminists look bad and so we don't like them either. Those are the feminazis.
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u/JKdito 6h ago
Call it what you want but they are doing it in the name of feminism. Im not a person who joins a group of people to fit in. I have my own views and I stand for them. A label is meaningless tbh because like you say, there are many opinions and views in a collective.
Every label is in that sense dangerous because it can be used to justify bad actions and attracts easy persuaded people through marketing and politics etc. A person is most vulnerable to manipulation when they passionately join a group, movement or put a label on their identity. Everything is subjective but the consequences are real. Equality is a good thing but should treated with balance, too much of anything is bad(even equality since when it becomes "forced").
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u/legacy-of-rats 6h ago
I agree, actions speak louder than words, and actions done in the name of something reflect on that something. This is why I do not like religion. However, feminist movements have done FAR more good than bad, so I would suggest educating yourself on feminism as an actual movement throughout history rather than your own personal views and experiences with bad individuals.
From the sound of it, you may also be interested in learning about social equity.
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u/Reasonable-Party8405 11h ago
So.... I am lost. These are 100 percent unsolicited??
I am not trying to be rude or offensive but do you do OF or post provocative pics? Not that is any type of excuse.
I just don't get it.