r/Assistance 10h ago

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT Just need someone to talk to

27 Upvotes

As the title says. Been through some stuff lately. Really could use someone to talk to right now šŸ’š

If anyone has some jokes or something i would love to hear them!


r/Assistance 16h ago

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT What a rare disease does to an ordinary family.

36 Upvotes

I never imagined I'd write something like this.

I'm not here to ask for money or anything else. I simply need a place to share what life has become for my family.

My partner has an extremely rare and aggressive cancer. It is incurable. Since the diagnosis, our lives have been divided into scans, hospital visits, medications, waiting for results, and trying to make the most of the time we still have together.

We have children, and like any parents, all we want is for them to feel safe and loved. Instead, they've had to watch their world change far too soon.

People often ask, "How are you doing?" The honest answer is that we're surviving, not living. Every day feels like balancing hope and heartbreak. We keep going because we have no other choice.

There are so many things people never see: the fear after everyone has gone to bed, the financial pressure, the house and garden slowly becoming impossible to keep up with, and the guilt of never feeling like you're doing enough.

Our home used to be our safe place. Now it's another reminder of everything we no longer have the time, energy, or strength to do.

I don't know why I'm posting this. Maybe because sometimes it feels like we're disappearing behind the illness. Maybe because I needed someone, somewhere in the world, to know that this is what life looks like for one ordinary family.

If you've read this far, thank you. I hope you never have to experience what a rare disease can do to a family. And if you still have healthy people around you today, give them a hug. None of us knows what tomorrow will bring.


r/Assistance 5h ago

REQUEST help to fix our shower

4 Upvotes

hey everyone, hope this post reaches you well!

after being unemployed for six months I finally got a new job and things started to look up. Im not getting paid till next month and yesterday we had a power outage and our (electric) shower stopped working. I'm asking for 20$ to get it fixed. If anyone can help us I would be infinitely grateful. I just want to take a warm shower and go to work and be a "normal person" again.

I can provide proof of anything needed.

I have PayPal and am located in South america (electric showers are very common here)

I intend to pay the kindness foward when I get my first paycheck. I just really need a little miracle right now.

Thank you so much for reading and I hope you have a blessed weekend.


r/Assistance 12m ago

REQUEST Need help finishing my tuition payment

• Upvotes

Hi everyone,
I’m a medical student currently going through a difficult financial situation. My family and I have managed to arrange a large part of my tuition, but I’m still $600 short, and the payment is due before August.
I know that’s a lot of money, and I’m not expecting one person to cover it. If anyone is able to help with whatever they’re comfortable contributing, I’d be incredibly grateful. Every contribution helps reduce the remaining amount.
If I’m unable to arrange the funds in time, it could affect my ability to continue my studies.
I can provide any verification the moderators require.
Thank you for taking the time to read my post. Any support means a lot.


r/Assistance 16h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Personal care and hygiene products for bedridden older lady

6 Upvotes

I'm looking for assistance getting some items I need to take care of my bedridden sister. She lives with me, and I'm her caretaker.

We all hope this is temporary, and it's become a priority to keep everything - bedding. clothing, general surroundings - very clean and sanitary. And it's very important to us both that she's kept clean and presentable.

I was able to purchase a lot of important items that we needed but there is still quite a bit on the list for personal hygiene (no-rinse shampoo etc), wash cloths/towels are a major need, and a few stray items (fish oil, witch hazel recommended by the nurse) that we just can't swing right now.

With the other expenses and other specialty purchases, I'm struggling to make this happen. I'm definitely not asking for money, just a few items that will be used many times a day to make things easier and more pleasant.

I'm a regular poster on povertykitchen and found a link to this sub there. I'm very frugal and tried to find the most basic and reasonable options.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read all of this, we'd be grateful for any possible help.

Wishlist is here:

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3NVQYJZJ4AJDW?ref_=wl_share

edited a typo


r/Assistance 12h ago

VOTES Please help my family by voting for Everest

2 Upvotes

Please vote for my pet in the Top Pets competition 🤩 https://TopPets.com/v/394x7v


r/Assistance 1d ago

THANK YOU Thank you so much to Piquat and Firm_elk9522!

14 Upvotes

You guys are amazing and when I saw the request filled it made me so happy and I teared up. I am so thankful for a community that looks after one another and helps people like me in a time of need.

Thank you Piquat for the Litterbox and Cat brush. This will make Callie more comfortable using the box while making it easier for me to clean, and the brush will be awesome so I can groom her!

Thank you Firm_Elk9522 for the Cat litter and Cat food. I suffer from a lot of anxiety and depression and have been struggling for awhile now, but I don't care about me as much as I do my cat. She is always there for me and helps sooth my anxiety and worries. Cuddles me, sleeps with me, follows me around and is just so sweet to me. I don't care if I eat I just don't want her to ever suffer she's the most important thing in my life.

Thank you for all of your help and making my entire week


r/Assistance 12h ago

REQUEST Need help with electricity crisis

0 Upvotes

Hello all, I'm currently living with and taking care of my mother who has had 2 heart attacks and an open heart surgery all in the span of the year. I live in Texas and the heatwave is serious down here. That plus the fact I have a prepaid electricity account, my power has been shut off and I need desperate help to get it back on. Please, if anyone can spare $60-$65 I would be incredibly grateful.


r/Assistance 16h ago

REQUEST Need help with gas

1 Upvotes

Hello all I was recently laid off a week or 2 ago with a company I have not gotten benefits from yet. I need help to get some gas so I can get down to the unemployment office and get something going as I’ve been looking at jobs nonstop. I’m also going to be going down to a food pantry to help out with some food. I would truly appreciate $25 to help me out just until I get my unemployment in and setup. I already got rid of everything I could. So I’m at my last step here! Thank you so much again.


r/Assistance 8h ago

REQUEST Need help with air purifier

0 Upvotes

Hi.

I live in Thunder Bay ON and I'm in need of an air purifier to cope with the wildfire smoke. Now I'm starting to worry about the littles ones and the pets. I've been asking every service in town to no avail but any air purifier from Walmart would do for pickup. Thanks for reading and God bless.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Supplies for Kitty

18 Upvotes

Hello, I was wondering if I could get assistance with my cat Callie [she's a calico I know original lol]. I am requesting some items that are urgent needs and things to better my cat's life and boredom. Here is a list of urgency vs quality of life in that order.

  1. Kitty Litter [urgent]- I am dangerously low on cat litter. In the cart I requested the biggest and cheapest bag, nothing fancy just to get her situated.

  2. Cat food [urgent]- A 3 pound bag of Allergen reducing dry food. She causes me severe allergies, but when I feed her this I have no symptoms and can cuddle her without dying.

  3. Litter box [QOL]- The current litter box I have for my cat is small for her and she likes to spray litter everywhere. I get a lot of cat pee clumps on the floor she's the type of cat that faces inwards in her little box to use the bathroom. The current litterbox is very old, small, and has a leak. This litterbox has high walls so she doesn't spray everywhere.

  4. Cat toys [QOL]- My cat constantly demands my attention to the point I feel bad where I cant pet her 24/7. I think it would be beneficial to get her something so she can not feel so bored. The other alternative was to get another cat but I can barely afford the one.

  5. Cat brush [QOL]- My cat gets dandruff on her back near her tail and I don't have a comb to brush her. I want her to look as beautiful as she possibly can.

Not everything needs to be purchased, especially the QOL stuff, but I appreciate anyone who helps me.

PS: heres a picture of my kitty :) https://ibb.co/Kj1h5ZXL

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NCU5LSTQFJNJ?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 1d ago

ADVICE Non monetary support ideas besides cooking and walking the dog

15 Upvotes

My aunt recently lost her son and her husband within 4 months of each other. Obviously I'm going to spend time with her, and I've cooked for her and walked her dog. I'm wondering what else I can do that would be helpful. She's not the type to ask for help and I'm not sure what needs to be done around her house- if I ask, she will tell me she's fine. I don't want to ask, I just want to DO.

I'm wondering if you have ideas or if something has been really helpful to you in a time of need that was either a small gesture or surprisingly helpful.

Thank you.


r/Assistance 17h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Can someone cash app me $20 so I can put gas in my car to get to work 😢

0 Upvotes

Started a new job but, as usual I’m joining at the end of the pay period so I’m a week out on getting my first check.

Can anyone help out? I’ve already pawned two guitars this week 😢


r/Assistance 1d ago

ADVICE Mailbox Issues: HELP AND ADVICE NEEDED! 😭

4 Upvotes

Hey y'all! Not sure if this is the right spot to put this, but I lost a package in the mail, and I need advice on how to get it back...

Here's the story:

Me and my sister went to the mailbox to get a package we were waiting for. We opened our mail slot thingy, and lo and behold, a key was there for 2B, for none other than the package box holder!

So, we go to try the key and it enters, and...

It doesn't unlock?

So we tried 2A right next to it, thinking it just said the wrong number, and it still didn't work...

A lady sitting on her porch says, "Why don't you try the other mailbox right next to it?"

Great idea! So we try that one (1B); it enters, and it turns! We are literally ecstatic, because we've been waiting 3 damn weeks for the package!

We put the key in the slot, thanked the lady, and were on our jolly way when we look down at the box.

A random ass name is on there. Different address, different postal code, different everything. This is not our package. WHO'S PACKAGE DID WE STEAL?!?!

Anyways, we decided to be good little mailbox girls and we walked down the street to find this lady's house. We were going to hand it to her, explain the situation, and then ask if, next time she went to the mailbox, if she found a random ass key, she could deliver it to us!

She never answered.

We knocked at the door, heard her come down the stairs, knocked again when she didn't answer for 5 minutes, and then heard her shuffle around a bit more, never coming out of her home.

Well, crap. Now we couldn't explain the situation to her!

We left the package at the door, and waddled melancholically back home because there was nothing else we could do.

I'm so dissapointed, and above all angry at the lady who didn't open her door, because we couldn't explain ourselves. Maybe she had a good reason though.

I'm also just thinking that maybe the mail keys are the same for every "B" slot, and maybe mine just got stuck, but why would it work like that?!?!

I’m not sure if they put the wrong key in our mailbox or if me and my sister messed up, but I just want my package…

Should I call Canada Post?! I just don't wanna be stuck for three hours on a customer service call.

So, do you guys have any advice for us?! genuinely have no idea how to get this package back, and the deliverers didn't provide us with any information (Phone number, name, any information on who delivered the damn thing).

Thank you šŸ˜”


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Homeschool supplies for my kids

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I have a 6 year old and a 4 year old and I homeschool them.

I need help with workbooks, notebooks, etc.
I managed to buy SOME things that was on sale for 25.-50. Cents and had some coupons.

I take care of my father in law and my husband and we are currently needing to move and would appreciate the help.

I don’t want money. I just would love and be greatful for some people to buy the supplies I need for them.

Blessings

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38IFB416TODQ8?ref_=wl_share

This is the list I’ve made.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Newly Hired Teacher with no salary until October

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone.

I never thought I'd be making a post like this, but I honestly don't know what else to do.

I was recently hired as a public school teacher here in the Philippines. I'm really happy and thankful to finally have this job ā¤ļø after months of waiting for my application to be processed. The problem is that my first salary won't be released until October (pls our government processes are so slow😭). During the months I was waiting to get hired, I slowly used up all of my emergency savings just to survive.

To make things worse, my laptop broke down. I use it every day to make lesson plans, PowerPoints, quizzes, and other teaching materials, but I can't even afford to have it repaired right now.😭

I only have around 14 USD in my account right now. I've already borrowed money from my parents, but I know I can't keep asking them for more. What they lent me won't even last until my first paycheck.

So I'm swallowing my pride and asking if anyone here is willing to help me get by, until I find a part-time work while waiting for my salary after three months. I roughly need around $50 for budgeting my food and transpo costs until I find a sustainable alternative (I think I can make it work for three months, prices are really cheap in PH); for the laptop repair, I really have no idea yet.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Donations for Frank!

19 Upvotes

Please donate to our Go Fund Me for Frank. He's our soul dog and we love him more than anything.

The operation he needs will be around £4000, it may be less, it may be more. But we know it's around this number. If the people of Reddit can assist us it would be amazing.

Any penny you can donate will be greatly appreciated. 🩵

https://gofund.me/e298e3491


r/Assistance 2d ago

VOTES Help me become world championā¤ļø

8 Upvotes

Hi everyone!!

I’m Enara, a girl from Spain, and I’m taking part in the Spanish-Language World Public Speaking Championship.

Like and share this video

By liking this video, you’ll be voting for me and helping me reach the final, where I’ll have the chance to compete for the world title.

Any support would mean the world to me. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart!!!


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Need help with car repair $2539

0 Upvotes

I have had a sudden car repair bill that I cant pay. I am OCD, suffer from autism and aspergers syndrome as well as horrible anxiety that prevents me from working currently. I recieve SSI to support myself, So I can only have 2000 in the bank at any given times or else my benifits get adjusted. All I have is 330 in savings that I can use to bring the cost down a little. I had a suprise car breakdown on july 4th in the middle of no where and had to get my car towed to the dealership since there were no machanics in the area. But had to put it on a credit card with a 30 percent APR, since the dealer said they wouldnt hold a car they were not working on. I need my car for doctors appointments and consoling services I recieve weekly. Without a car to attend these, my medicines will eventually be cut and my mental state will take a down spiral. Here is the proof of costs of repairs https://imgur.com/a/1FSPXdO

Any little bit helps and I truely appericate the kindness of strangers.

Here is the gofundme linke

https://gofund.me/d9b28e51f


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Amazon list help

2 Upvotes

Good evening,

After paying bills this month I wasn't left with much extra. Pet food is my most pressing need so that's all I put on my list. I put some of their favorite options but they aren't picky if you want to switch anything out. I think that's something you can do but I'm not sure. Thank you!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/38ET07SOTUS4T?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED REQUEST - needing gas, will be stuck soon

10 Upvotes

Hello friends, I am still homeless and living in my car. I did manage to get a job, but it's only part time and I had been out sick recently with covid so I missed my last check. The heat has been so bad in Florida, I have wasted all my little funds on gas to keep me and my pets cool and it's evaporating quickly. It only ever goes to gas, I'll get food at the food bank. I will get paid Thursday but not much, and I'm not sure I can make it to then I'm very below the line. If anyone could spare ~$40 for a full tank, or honestly anything really I would really appreciate it. A gift card is fine if it makes you feel more secure, I just can't get stuck out here. Thank you, and blessed be

Thank you u/Dreamland_nomad for helping me and my babies, I appreciate you āœŒļø


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED [REQUEST] help with utility bill

5 Upvotes

Hello everyone I have a utility bill 51€ im unemployed and Struggling getting by doing gigs to survive. If someone can spare even 5$ it would be an immense help im literally down to my last buck and don't even have money to buy my depression meds I can't afford a visit to the doctor right now.

Thank you for taking the time to read


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Support Chelsea's Healing and Recovery

1 Upvotes

https://gofund.me/146ab629b

Henderson, NV

Chelsea Gress, my significant other, has faced a series of health challenges over the past few years. We previously turned to GoFundMe for support, and thanks to the generosity of friends, family, and kind strangers, Chelsea was able to navigate those difficult times and make progress in her recovery. For a while, things were looking up, and she was doing well.

Unfortunately, at the start of this year, Chelsea experienced another setback when she was physically attacked outside our apartment. The trauma, both physically and emotionally, from this event has been significant, and she has been working hard to process it with the help of therapy and regular appointments with a psychiatrist. At the time, Chelsea was covered by Medicaid, which made it possible for her to access the care she needed. However, about two months ago, she was removed from Medicaid due to lack of employment. The attack has made it difficult for her to return to work, and she is currently working with Medicaid to try to regain coverage.

On top of these challenges, Chelsea’s mother passed away unexpectedly a month ago. Her mother was the primary caretaker for Chelsea’s father, who has dementia, and now Chelsea and her siblings are handling his care. This has brought added emotional and financial stress to an already difficult situation. In the meantime, we are facing out of pocket costs for therapy, psychiatrist appointments, medications, medical bills, and general cost of living. Chelsea's treatments are essential for healing, and having to stop or stagger them would be counterproductive to her recovery. With the loss of her mother and the responsibility of caring for her father, your support means even more during this difficult time.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help for a single Mom

0 Upvotes

Never done this before not sure if it works. I was just laid off and I’m collecting unemployment but it’s half of what I was making. I literally only need an extra $50 to $100 just to finish my bills. I need to pay my phone bill just using WiFi! If someone could send $5 anything will help. If anyone can help ASAP PLEASE! Thank you
I have Venmo. You would make my year!!!


r/Assistance 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with Rent (due in 2 days)

9 Upvotes

Greetings all. I’ve never done this but I am truly desperate. Recently, I’ve had some unforeseen circumstances that caused us to spend more than I was truly able, which has put us so behind on rent, which is due in 2 days before our account is sent in. I don’t get paid until next Wednesday, and I’ve already advanced a good amount of my paycheck + I need to save for next month’s rent, which, thankfully, will be half off because we referred some friends. Breathing room, but I want us to be able to make it to that time! I’ve been working all week & trying to find creative ways to make money outside of my own job, but I am currently down about $600. I plan to hopefully bring that down a bit by Wednesday (doing Uber Eats & taking some advances), but that’s where I’m at right now and it’s been a struggle. If there is any kind soul out there that would be willing to help in any such way, that would be very relieving. Thank you all & sorry for sharing our burdens.