I went to the post office just to explore the place. We were just looking around when a woman walked in. She was taking off her sunglasses or something. We’d been there for maybe 1 minute like that and I was already on my way out. She immediately started talking to me, probably Swiss German. I didn’t understand a word, but I definitely got negative vibes. I guessed she wanted to know whether she had to wait for me, so I just gestured and said “Go … please.” She was huffing and puffing like crazy. And I swear… she didn’t have to wait for me at all.
Another time I was in a public building in my Gemeinde. There are several rooms there that I’d been curious to explore, but they’re usually locked. One of them happened to be open and there were no warning signs, nothing at all. Inside I found these beautiful giant looms, so I stepped back out to grab my phone because I wanted to take a picture of the looms with the fabric on them.
Just then a woman came over looking absolutely furious. I got the impression she didn’t want me going in, but… well, by then I had already been inside right? If visitors weren’t allowed, shouldn’t the door have been locked or at least have a sign saying so? I tried asking politely: “They’re beautiful. Could I just step back in for a quick photo?” I would have thought people enjoy hearing that someone appreciates their work. Instead, she literally shut the door in my face.
One day I went in the library completely spontaneously, just because I wanted somewhere warm to escape the cold. I’m not someone who plans everything in advance. The door was open, so to me that simply meant the library was open.
The librarian started asking if i wanted to borrow a book and i was like “ yeah maybe” and she almost panicked because there were only a few minutes left before closing time. She kept telling me, at least 20 times, that she absolutely couldn’t stay late. I was perfectly ok with that. I just wandered around a bit. Then she started asking me where I was from and whether I’d recently moved here. She told me she was studying my language and that she actually had a lesson that very day. So I said that if she wanted, I’d be happy to help her practise through conversation. She looked at me in complete disbelief and said “Who? You?” …and nothing else. I mean… yes?
Of course I left when the library closed. I never expected her to stay beyond her working hours. But instead of simply waiting a couple of minutes, she spent the whole time making passive-aggressive remarks. At one point she even commented that my 1yo’s shoes were a bit muddy, even though you could barely notice.
Almost every interaction I have here ends up feeling unpleasant. It’s endless